HELP! ADVICE:"I Am Having Sex With My Married Pastor"

This lady says she needs help on what to do. 

I recently started a relationship with my married pastor whom I have been close to for a while now. He has always been there for me through everything and he also inspire me. This is one of the reasons we bonded. Lately I have started developing some romantic feelings for him and I was very excited when he told me he felt the same way.

I know this is wrong but we have begun a sexual relationship and the sex is the best I have ever had. I don't know how to stop and I have also started becoming jealous of his wife because he goes home to her every night after being with me. 

Please tell me what to do.

TuFace Ididia a lawyer ?

Mr Ididia revealed in recent interview with Sam Umukoro that he would defiantly go back to school to study Law .that wasn't all he talked about. 
He tells us how he handles his women and kids, his deal with Blackface.

Interview

• SUI: Your relationship with women has been a topic of controversy. Someone once posted on Facebook that, ‘after six kids, Tuface is now married now, can he be faithful?’… How do you feel about such questions? 

Tuface: The day I decided to go public was the day I gave my privacy away. It’s only natural – if you put yourself out there – that people are going to say different stuff, even when it’s not true. You laugh if you hear the funny ones; you are surprised when you hear the malicious and wicked ones. But what people think about you is none of your business, it’s their business. So, na their headache if dem dey worry. I just look at it and say, ‘okay oh, na you be the police na’ (laughing). I just try my best to be a good person, you know.

• SUI: You don’t see yourself as a player?

 

Tuface: If I were a player, they wouldn’t have caught me like that (General laughter)

 

• SUI: How challenging is the role of being a father to your kids?

 

Tuface: It’s not easy. Sometimes, it is painful, especially when you don’t get to see them as often as you would wish to because of work. Today I’m here, tomorrow, I’m there, sometimes for weeks, months; plus the fact that they have different moms… I didn’t plan for it this way, but it happened and I have accepted it, no shaking. My plan was to have a wife and then have children. Something happened along the line, but I didn’t run away from it.

• SUI: Why did it take you so long to finally settle down with Anne?

Tuface: I don’t really have an answer to that question, because I don’t know. I can’t explain why I don’t have an answer to that, but somehow, by the grace of God, we are still together.

 

• SUI: You once told me that you would like to go back to school to study law, do you still have plans to do that?

 

Tuface: Yes, I want to do that. I can’t say when exactly, maybe in the next two or three years? But I’m definitely going to do that.

• SUI: When you first started out, did you honestly think you will get to this level, did you ever dream of this kind of success?

 

Tuface: I will say yes. Everyone wishes to take his game to the highest level, but what you don’t know is how fast or how long it would take to get there, but you definitely have that dream of getting there. So I had a dream of becoming a successful musician/ artiste. I hoped, worked and prayed for it and I’m getting there.

 

• SUI: There has been a lot of controversy about who wrote your hit song, the evergreen ‘African Queen’. Did blackface actually write the lyrics, as some claim?

 

Tuface: The song was written by Innocent Idibia and Austin Amedu; Innocent Idibia is Tuface, Austin Amedu is Blackface.

 

• SUI: So, who should get credit for the success of African Queen and did you know it was going to be monster hit at the time?

 

Tuface: The credit goes to… Tuface, Blackface; OJB, for production; Kennis Music, for marketing; the credit goes to all them and also the fans, especially my Nigerian fans.

Keep calm I'm still a virgin ?

If Virginity Is The Pride Of A Lady, What Is A Guy's Pride?

If virginity is the pide of a woman, Guys, abeg what is your own pride? Let's share.

Nadia Buhari hits Back

Nadia and Jim are still very much together ?

Nadia hit back at our earlier post by posting this photo of herself and her boo on her instagram page to prove things are not salty between them. She wrote "#Life is a beautiful journey for all those who are willing to #live and#love!

Well, nadia sorry we read the wrong meaning to the cryptic tweets suggesting there was trouble.

Pictures From the AY show in Abuja Nigeria

AY Brought Abuja to a stand still earlier this month with another one of his shows. actresses Juliet Ibrahim,Ugo Okoye and Ebube  Nwagbo were walking in the fashion show at this event



>>>CLICK HERE TO VIEW PHOTOS FROM THE EVENT<<<

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VIDEO!! Sex in the Big Brother Africa house

Oh dear !

this season of Big Brother is packed full with a bunch of horny housemates & the entire continent is watching. It's been a few days in the Big Brother House, and Selly has gotten excessively ‘h*rny’ she seems to have forgotten her man back home and have decided to "get it on" with Tanzania’s Nando I don’t know when this went down, but a video has surfaced. In the video you can see some suspicious movement under the sheets, at some point Nando “heads down south” while Selly just chills as he does his business….LOL (Maybe she wasn’t feeling him so much) Click  the link below to see the video and let us know what you think went down….Did they get it on ? http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x116zjp_date360-net-part-1-nando-and-selly-having-sex-via-date360-net_redband?start=0 http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x116zk1_date360-net-part-2-nando-and-selly-having-sex-via-date360-net_redband#from=embediframe

Chris Brown allegedly assaults a female Fan

Chris Brown is being accused of assaulting a female inside a night club, sending the woman to the hospital. According to TMZ, 24-year-old woman, Deanna Gines, is claiming she was in VIP with Chris Brown in an Orange County nightclub after his show in Anaheim. When the bar was about to close, Deanna (pictured above) claims Chris Brown roughly shoved her to the ground. She told TMZ that the shove was deliberate and she fell hard on her knees.

Deanna was taken to the hospital and treated for torn ligaments in her right knee that may require surgery. A police report has been filed and an investigation has been opened.

Chris took to twitter and denied the incident tweeting "I didn't do anything"

14year old nigerian boy throws cousin into a well

The discovery of the body of three-year-old Bose Olaniyi in a well in the neighbourhood has thrown the residents of Ilupeju-Isokan area of Akobo into mourning. But the most shocking aspect of the sad occurrence was that the suspect in this case is no other person than the deceased’s cousin, Rilwan Olaniyi, who confessed to have acted on the promptings of his mother to kill his cousin!

How could 14-year-old Rilwan, a Primary Six pupil, ever think of killing his little cousin? Crime Reports gathered that Mrs Bola Olaniyi and Mrs Morenike Olaniyi are two women married to two brothers. The former, who is Rilwan’s mother, is married to the elder of the two brothers and due to circumstances, the latter and her husband with their children started living in the house bulit by the elder brother.

It happened in the evening of June 17. Little Bose’s mother, Morenike, a mother of four, reportedly went to buy yam flour in the neighbourhood to prepare dinner for her children. She left her children behind but the youngest, Bose, cried after her mother, insisting on following her, as if she had a premonition of what would befall her that night. Morenike however sent her daughter back, telling her to go and stay with her siblings. And with that she waved a final bye to her daughter as she never saw her alive again. Dinner for the household later became a forgone issue.

Crime Reports gathered that by the time she came back, she could not see her daughter. As neighbours joined her in the search, they later found the body of the girl in a nearby well at about 11.30p.m. Policemen from Akobo were said to have been called and they in turn contacted fire services which came to bring the body out of the well. A boy, whose name was given as Lanre was said to have revealed that he saw Rilwan carrying the missing girl.

After much prodding, Rilwan reportedly confessed and said it was his mother who asked him to kill the girl because Morenike, the deceased’s mother, was not according her the respect due to her. The boy and his mother were promptly arrested by the police while his father, who was almost lynched to death for what the mob termed his inability to handle situation in his home, was also rescued by the police and kept in custody.

When speaking with Crime Reports, Rilwan confirmed that he was the one who threw the baby in the well but denied that it was his mother who sent him. “Bose was at the backyard looking for her mother while her siblings were at the passage. I held her by the hand and took her to the well. There was no one around then so I threw her inside.” When asked why he acted so callously, Rilwan said he was prompted by a strange spirit.

His mother, Mrs Bola Olaniyi (32), a mother of five told Crime Reports: “Rilwan is my first born. On the day of the occurrence, I was not at home. I went out to avoid a debtor and left my four children at home. My sister-in-law children were also at home and Rilwan was yet to return from school.

“I returned at about 7.30p.m. and met Rilwan holding my last child outside. That was when my sister-in-law came and starting calling for her daughter, saying that she could not see him. I asked her whether she followed her when she went to buy something but she replied that she left the little girl at home.

“We went to inform the police and they told us to come back after 24 hours, advising that we should go and search the neighbourhood. We continued searching . My husband came when I called him and as he tried to calm his brother’s wife who had become hysterical, she held on to his shirt, saying that it was our son who carried her daughter.

“A neighbour joined us in the search and when he opened a well nearby our residence, we were shocked to see the girl inside, floating. We went to the residence of the chairman of the landlords association and while there, someone came and said the mob was beating my husband because my son said he was the one who threw his cousin in the well. I was advised to stay back to avoid mob action. That was when my son seized the opportunity to lie against me that I was the one who said he should commit the act.

“How can I do such a thing when I have my own children? It is true I had issues with my sister-in-law but they were the normal disagreements you would find among extended family members. They were nothing so serious as for anyone to think of such evil. I did not send my son to kill his cousin.

“Later, when policemen were interrogating him, he told them that he mentioned my name out of fear, saying that he threw the girl in the well because my sister-in-law used to call him a thief. I have suffered over that boy too much because of his stubborness. I am a muslim but I attend churches, fasting and praying because of him. I am even afraid to stand beside him because I never knew he could conjure such an evil plan and carry it out.”

Confirming the incident and the arrest of the suspects, the police image maker in Oyo State, Olabisi Ilobanafor, told Crime Reports that the case had been transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Department, Iyaganku for further investigation.



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Nollywood Actress Chika Ike Reveals......

I am Chika Ike, an actress. I read Human Kinetics and Health education. This discipline deals with the body movement. It teaches a lot of sports and sports blends well with entertainment. Personally, it has helped me know how not to grow fat!



Aside acting
I run boutiques. I love fashion and I love to embrace the trends. Fashion and entertainment go hand in hand.

Life on the screen
All my movies come with their own challenges. This is because playing someone out of your character is challenging. There was a movie where I played with a snake. The snake felt cold and heavy and it kept coiling around my body. The first day I carried it, I could not sleep well and kept dreaming of snakes. I got over it and started working with it. There was another where I had to shave my hair. It was rumoured that I collected N5m for that job. I believe I should have asked for more. The amount was not enough because my hair is worth more than N30m. All I know is that it was a high-budget movie and it was the producer who decided that he wanted to make a mark with it- it was his first. He did the movie for his archive and for posterity. He spent a lot of money and even burnt a whole car in the movie. Honestly, I don’t care what people say about the N5m fee. You cannot always convince everybody but as long as you are able to convince yourself, nobody else matters.

Relationship
I would not want to talk about the experience with early marriage and spousal abuse. When you get married, things happen along the line and you ask yourself if it is something you can take. Everybody has their share of experience in marriage. I don’t like talking about it because I’m trying to get over it. The next man I will marry? I am not sure I am going to get married now  but if I eventually do, I will just let go and allow God to guide me. But if it does not work out, happiness is all that matters. I cannot sacrifice my happiness for anybody.

Heartbreaks
None. I must have broken some hearts as a teenager but nobody broke mine.  At that age, I tried not to be in any relationship whatsoever. I was focused on my studies because of my parents.

Foundation
It is called ‘Chika help the child foundation’ and the focus is on giving life and a new beginning to children on the streets. I grew up in an environment where children did not have enough and were exposed to a lot of challenges such as rape, lack of quality education and food. I did not have much luxury either. I had a very humble beginning but my parents could afford quality education, food and clothing for me.  I saw my mother helping these kids, cooking for them and paying some of their school fees. I saw how they struggled to feed and I made up my mind that when I grow up, I would take up a cause where I can reach out to children on the streets. I have felt their pain as a young girl. 

Whats with the tweets Nadia Buari ?

Has Jim Iyke's ex fiancés prayers  been answered? ....... well , if his new bird Nadia Buari  tweets about lies and so on are anything to go by then Maybe.

Tweets below